August 10, 2005 – This was the day I wrote a very important list. A list that will be my guide in having a boyfriend. A list that may serve as my eye opener to the reality that I'll be facing soon in my life... This may seem funny or overly acting but these were my thoughts on this day...
In a guy, physically he must be:
His characteristics must be:
Other characteristics:
Hmm?... these are the things that I was looking for in a guy...
I found this kind of guy but he was not who I think who he was...
I fell in love with wrong men...
I fell in love with men who does not pass to the categories that I'm looking for...
For short, I fell in love unconsciously.
Love is not blind... it just doesn't mind.
Now that I'm single again, I hope and pray that I will meet the kind of man who passes my list.
He may not necessarily be perfect, but if he is close to perfect, then he must be it!
If not, then I'll wait for the man who truly deserves me.
But my question is... Does this kind of man exist? Only God can tell... :)
In a guy, physically he must be:
- taller than me
- fair or white complexion
- thin lips
- smiling eyes
- smiling face
- straight eyebrows
- not fat and not thin
- little muscles
- not with kinky hair
- neat looking
- presentable
- nice nose
- no bad body odor
His characteristics must be:
- honest
- respectful
- open
- trustworthy
- affectionate
- sweet
- romantic
- demonstrative
- loving
- thoughtful
- responsible
- open-minded
- has initiative
- optimistic
- loyal in loving – one woman man
- understanding
- good sense of humor
- God fearing
- patient
- kind
- calm
- humble
- committed
- has time for me
- hard working
- not boring to be with
- accepts me for who I am
- accepts my family
- accepts my relatives
- accepts my friends
- good family background
- introduces me to his family
- introduces me to his friends
- a gentleman
- remembers occasions
- a good comforter
- know when to talk and when to be quiet
- not fond of cursing
- encourages me
- gives support
- appreciates my efforts
- stands up for me
- not fond of making fun of others
- loves dogs
- loves kids
- goes out with my family
- goes out with my friends
- brings me along with his friends
- loves music
- loves to watch movies
- makes me feel special
- not self-centered
- knows how to let down his pride
- holds my hand when we walk together
- goes to church with me
- vocal with his feelings
- loves to hug me
- thinks about our future
- plans about our future
- includes me in his decisions
- willing to wait for me patiently
Other characteristics:
- older than me
- not vain with his looks
- no children with other women
- has a stable job
- knows how to spend money wisely
- knows when to be practical
- does not smoke
- drinks occasionally
- does not take prohibited drugs
Hmm?... these are the things that I was looking for in a guy...
I found this kind of guy but he was not who I think who he was...
I fell in love with wrong men...
I fell in love with men who does not pass to the categories that I'm looking for...
For short, I fell in love unconsciously.
Love is not blind... it just doesn't mind.
Now that I'm single again, I hope and pray that I will meet the kind of man who passes my list.
He may not necessarily be perfect, but if he is close to perfect, then he must be it!
If not, then I'll wait for the man who truly deserves me.
But my question is... Does this kind of man exist? Only God can tell... :)